Talking Dirty During The Act
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You get to learn what you’re comfortable with. It might be tricky at first as it can make people to feel vulnerable to put themselves out there in such a vocal way. There are those who can’t say certain words like ‘’pussy’’ and ‘’cock’’ which if you are sincere, are the words you are going to make use of when gisting dirty. There is also the question of overcoming how you see them inside the bedroom. Sex therapist Vanessa Marin’s column for Bustle on talking dirty explains, it’s totally okay to use words like slut, even though you may find them offensive outside the bedroom. You’re taking control of the word and using it on your terms, and that can be challenging for some women. But sometimes, a challenge helps you define what you’re comfortable with.
Keep your spouse in the loop. Your mate can not read your mind, so if you know what makes you feel good, what needs to be done and you’d really love it if he/she could focus all his/her energy, then you both benefit. Once you can say what your desire and how you want it, you are no longer too far from saying how it make you feel.
The dirty talk will just roll from there, though it will take time but you will definitely get there. It makes you to be creative. Your style of talking dirty is letting your partner know you are about to climax. This is usually one aspect of dirty talk that people can relate with, but think about how hot it might be just to let loose and reveal all the stuff you keep on your head during love making.
It’s a form of foreplay. As you may know, foreplay is an extremely important part of sexual activity for the ladies especially as they take longer time to get aroused than men. This is one reason they don’t react as quickly as guys, hence foreplay is essential. Start with dirty talks then tease each other in ways that are as important as physical sexy play. Quickies are quite fun, if there is time to indulge in it. Chat dirty for twenty minutes before removing your clothes and touching each other. The difference will be clear.
It’s quite fun when you give yourself a surprise, especially if you have to go the extra mile to do stuff that you have never done before. You might just realize it was made for you. This can revolutionalize your love life but you may never know unless you give it a try. You will surprise your spouse. There are a number of ways to spice up a long term relationship when things are getting a bit stale. If your sex position is always that of missionary, right before bed, talk dirty to your spouse as an easy way to switch things up a bit. There is a chance of the things you have been thinking, but couldn’t voice out, will really surprise them.
Whisper in your partner’s ear, making sure your lips slightly graze their earlobe depending on the response, you can take it further or let him or her to take over.
It improves love making. If you are honest, open and graphical about what you desire out of every sexual experience, it will lead to better sex. With communication and all the dirty talk, there will be no secrets and neither you nor your spouse will be forced to figure out what that moan or facial expression really means. Intercourse
shouldn’t be a riddle.
It can be fun all the way. You don’t have to act serious to talk dirty. A number of times, couples forget that not only is sex fun, it can be funny too. So relax, loosen up enough to have a good time, laugh and joke about it. You will be amazed how much good time you’d had. Try practicing with your spouse tonight and see if the above works for you. Note that the most significant thing is for you two to feel comfortable and enjoy the experience as much as each other.
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